Civilization degrades the many to exalt the few.
To enjoy the things we ought and to hate the things we ought has the greatest bearing on excellence of character.
Am I shaping my deeds to a well made plan? Patiently doing the things I can? Or, am I a wrecker, who walks the town Content with the labor of tearing down?
Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose your ability to learn new things and move forward in your life.
Perhaps a child who is fussed over gets a feeling of destiny, he thinks he is in the world for something important and it gives him drive and confidence.
New ideas come into this world somewhat like falling meteors, with a flash and an explosion, and perhaps somebodys castle-roof perforated.